Things like "You didn't sound Jewish enough" or "you did the thing I asked exactly like I wanted so I'm mad at you" is worth having a chip on their shoulder about. The first one is actually pretty gross so I have no clue why anyone is saying "maybe you're the problem." It sounds like the bitterness they have is a result of things that are reasonable to be bitter about.
Sometimes people just have bad luck. For instance, at one point during my time RPing I kept running into drama but it wasn't general drama or widespread drama around me. I would join a game, meet like 1 or 2 people I found really bitchy, get on their bad sides because when they were openly dickish I was the type to call them out, and then had to deal with them targeting me and some of their friends piling in. But it was only those specific players and only a small handful of only their friends.
It'd be easy to say I was the problem but it turned out by sheer dumb (bad) luck, over the course of a few games, I inadvertently wound up on a whistle-stop tour of a handful of RPs biggest wankers. It was only like 4 of them but these were some of the big name ones that eventually got run out of RP entirely. It completely stopped being a problem at one point when my bad luck streak just randomly ended (possibly because dwrp started mass banning wankers), and I found a solid group of nice people to consistently hang out with.
People like to throw blame but you know what? Life just is like that sometimes and there are a lot of flakes and petty people in rp. We've weeded out most of the big wankers but there are a lot of low grade dramatic people left. The fact that thread op's examples aren't super wanky and are just low grade dramatic fits dwrp's current patterns. And nobody should be telling someone who got "You're not Jew-ey enough" that they're the problem.
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Sometimes people just have bad luck. For instance, at one point during my time RPing I kept running into drama but it wasn't general drama or widespread drama around me. I would join a game, meet like 1 or 2 people I found really bitchy, get on their bad sides because when they were openly dickish I was the type to call them out, and then had to deal with them targeting me and some of their friends piling in. But it was only those specific players and only a small handful of only their friends.
It'd be easy to say I was the problem but it turned out by sheer dumb (bad) luck, over the course of a few games, I inadvertently wound up on a whistle-stop tour of a handful of RPs biggest wankers. It was only like 4 of them but these were some of the big name ones that eventually got run out of RP entirely. It completely stopped being a problem at one point when my bad luck streak just randomly ended (possibly because dwrp started mass banning wankers), and I found a solid group of nice people to consistently hang out with.
People like to throw blame but you know what? Life just is like that sometimes and there are a lot of flakes and petty people in rp. We've weeded out most of the big wankers but there are a lot of low grade dramatic people left. The fact that thread op's examples aren't super wanky and are just low grade dramatic fits dwrp's current patterns. And nobody should be telling someone who got "You're not Jew-ey enough" that they're the problem.