I'm sorry anon, I know how this feels. it's so annoying. these days if someone is doing "all the things!" at me over and over while plotting I just stop going to them for plots or agreeing to do things with them unless they give me an actual idea.

this is also why I've stopped overtly offering starters. now I'll either point them at my catch all and say "put something in here if you want a thing!" or discuss them privately with people I know who aren't going to jerk me around. saves a lot of time.