why are we pretending that this is THE ONLY WAY trans headcanons are rped

because, in the experience of practically everyone you're arguing with in this thread, it IS the only way we've seen trans headcanons RPed. it's also the only way they get written in fic and drawn in fanart, so it's a big problem for some of us who have to constantly deal with it in our fandom spaces

just asking for your rp partner's consent before you factor in a trans headcanon, inclusive of walking them through what that headcanon involves and what its justification is given their characterization in the canon

and what if your RP partner doesn't want to sit there and listen to that shit unprompted just because you want to play it? if they wanted to RP with a trans headcanon they would have sought it out

again: if it means so much to you then go do it on tumblr or twitter or insanejournal or the other places which don't care. or try and do it here but stick to memes and psls. but op asked what the opinions of it are here on rpa and they got the honest answers of: we don't like it, take it somewhere else. sorry if that's not clear enough but it's the truth