again, you can still enjoy 99% of media even if you're spoiled for it

and if it matters SO MUCH that you're not spoiled.. make it a priority to catch up with that piece of media before you engage with the internet

idk why it's so much to suggest that someone who cares so much about something that it actively ruins their entire day/week/life to be spoiled should also take responsibility for that instead of expecting everyone else to clam up about it for weeks until they personally have seen it

it's a 2 way street