You attempt to disrupt the tragic causality loop of the cooler, even though you did not respect their non-binary identity, you still love them. Unfortunately, you prevent the fridge from ever marrying the first anon. As a result, the loop breaks but only by preventing the birth of the cooler in the first place.

You, as a time traveller, are separated from the wave of changes that occur and witness them spreading. You are the only person in any reality to remember the cooler. You repeatedly try to rectify your mistake, like that two-parter episode of Star Trek: Voyager. Each attempt makes things worse. The cooler is lost to the stream of time, but all things considered, perhaps that was for the best.

And eventually, Kathryn Janeway blows you up.