Don't put words in my mouth. I didn't ask them for anything. They repeatedly asked for me to update my address to "send mine" after I'd asked them to do the same so I could send theirs. I never once asked where mine was- I simply asked them where to send theirs. If they made the assumption that me getting them something means I was owed in return, to the point they felt they needed to lie about it, that was their mistake, not mine.
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