aww, thank you! you seem like a peach, yourself. ♥ and fwiw, i really doubt it's totally on you. what the above anon said re: people not plainly stating all of their prefs might not apply to you (since you said they come to you), but in cases like yours it usually amounts to the other person getting busy, overextending themselves, being more interested in talking about what-if scenarios than playing them, etc. nothing's wrong with falling into that behavior on occasion, it happens to the best of us sometimes, but it really does suck when you run into a lot of people like that all at once. :c

i hope scaling back helps you feel better, though!