haha wow not the post i wanted to anonfail on, thanks mousepad

but yeah, i'm sorry man. eating disorders are particularly bad for this for some reason. it's a hard blow to finally open up to someone about it just to have them reject the possibility.

sometimes people are just shitty friends, sometimes it's because they don't know how to approach it, or it's tinged with their own experiences. it doesn't make it any less awful to you, but it's made it easier for me personally to forgive folks i've needed to forgive. and to cut ties with those i don't.

i hope you're in a better place now, regardless of which is right for you