the "problem" is that these wholly male autogynephiliacs are appropriating actual trans identity for the express purpose of validating their sick fetishes and by legitimizing them you are playing into their game. i'm reminded of kevin, the notorious dwrp creeper who took on a trans identity for similar reasons and got lots of people just like you crying to the indifferent masses that we should respect "her" pronouns no matter what because, idk, ideology is supposed to trump reality?