are you talking to me or in general? because i don't care either way and i put that in my reply. but it does seem to bother some people if they find out they're smutting with a gender they don't want to be. most people assume female by default on dwrp unless they know otherwise. so if someone who doesn't want to interact with men online finds out or thinks they're rping with a guy in a smut thread, that could bother them.

like i said, it doesn't bother me. i'm playing the characters not the players. but there are reasons why people would do a thing.