It's the same way with moooost mental health/normativity, to a sort of alarming degree. People can talk forever about how acting different is great, but when it comes to competing with others for jobs, social norms very obviously favour those who can naturally act a certain way, to the point that most people who don't fit that mould damage themselves trying to keep up. Work lyfe is not normally how most people act, but for different reasons that front-line work is also not normal in terms of being treated like garbage.