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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

we both agreed that we wanted to play smut. why are you making it so hard?! your character is pushing mine away at every turn

[(Anonymous)]

just because i agreed to smut doesn't mean i agreed to be ooc

[(Anonymous)]

you think i'm going to be ooc and have mine rape yours?

no thanks

[(Anonymous)]

hi that rumlow

[(Anonymous)]

um?

[(Anonymous)]

if smut is ooc for you and you didn't talk about dubcon/noncon at the start of the thread, then don't agree to smut. if you want to play out dubcon/noncon, be upfront with it. lots of people enjoy playing it. no one wants to be herded into it or made to play something they weren't signing up for.

[(Anonymous)]

no

i'd rather see you shake and cry imagining how everyone wants to trick you into raping their characters on anoncomms

[(Anonymous)]

you're really buttmad your previous attempts at trolling and shitstirring got deleted, aren't you?

[(Anonymous)]

this is my problem. we talked about a completely different dynamic between our characters, but it's playing out differently

[(Anonymous)]

is it notrape versus rape like rapeanon thinks?

[(Anonymous)]

i've been the person who's causing it to work out differently from what we agreed, but usually when that happens i try to communicate and see if we can fix it

[(Anonymous)]

So it's fine to ask that that their character is inexplicably attracted to yours in order to get the thread rolling, but if they ask you to return the favor and have your character be interested in theirs so the thread will actually work, then it's too hard?

You sound like a treat to thread with.

[(Anonymous)]

some characters can be attracted and yet be reluctant to "go all the way" for whatever reasons. it's not a hard and fast split, and not everyone is thirsting to have you rape their virginal uke

are you playing an aggressive character that is identified by your fandom as having noncon/dubcon elements? that might be part of your problem too

+1

[(Anonymous)]

there has to be mutual interest, or it's dub or noncon. that's how it works

[(Anonymous)]

check out the projection on this guy, holy shit

[(Anonymous)]

You need reading comprehension if you got from what OP said that their character isn't showing any interest in the other one. They said they ARE and that the other one shuts it down and pushes them away every time they try to get it to go anywhere. Don't jump into a discussion if you're too dim even to comprehend what's actually being discussed.

ITT: Why DWRP has so many problems

[(Anonymous)]

Seriously, all it takes is some communication to say hey my character isn't going to jump into bed with them right away but after a few threads we can do some smut.

Re: ITT: Why DWRP has so many problems

[(Anonymous)]

alternately, say upfront that you do not do dubcon/noncon and you are not interested in dubcon/noncon scenes

isn't that the whole point of permissions posts? even that master has one now

da

[(Anonymous)]

tbh, considering the nature of noncon/dubcon, people who want to play it should be the ones asking their partners first before they just assume it's okay.

Re: ITT: Why DWRP has so many problems

[(Anonymous)]

but that's not how this thread came to be. 'you agreed to play smut and we're supposed to be playing smut, but you're turning down smut'. replace smut with any other thing and people would be just as confused. if you agree to do the thing and don't say 'sure, let's play smut, but it'll take a bit for my char to warm up', then most people are going to naturally assume you mean IN THAT THREAD. that's like jumping into a smut meme about mid-fuck memes, then deciding that your char was raped or ignoring that it's a mid-fuck meme and not having any sex happen. why play in the smut theme if you're not going to smut it up?

i'm not against not smutting. don't smut if you don't want. but don't agree to something, play something out, and then do everything possible to not do the thing you agreed to. it does come off like they're expecting dubcon/noncon at that point.

+1

[(Anonymous)]

it'd be like if someone agreed to play a murder plot, only for their character to dodge every single attack when it came time to thread it out.

if you agreed that your character would get killed, at some point you have to let them get injured.

if you agree to smut, at some point your character is going to be horny. stop dodging the pheromones and let it happen!

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

It's still obviously a communication issue going on here because one of two things is likely going on here:

1. RP partner didn't really want to play out smut and was too afraid to say no
2. RP partner is good with smut, but didn't say that it would need buildup over multiple threads or noncon/dubcon being involved. Even in memes sometimes characters need more buildup and players talk about assumed CR to skip that stuff.
3. While not as likely, it could be possible the characters don't mesh well together after all.

That's what the issue here is. OP is saying RP partner agreed to smut. OP obviously assumed it was that thread but RP partner failed to communicate or was too afraid to say what they really did or did not want.

[(Anonymous)]

what in gods name happened in this thread

[(Anonymous)]

i guess i hit a nerve

[(Anonymous)]

this is why you should be having this conversation with your rp partner and not the thirst sharks of anoncomm