nonny, I think you're a bit too invested. it's not about ic/ooc divide where players are concerned. it's the fact that, actor playing a paid role or not, there's a real person out there who could be deeply upset having their own, actual face (not just a drawing) attached to sensitive material that they didn't sign up for. the person really might not care and might not ever see it, sure, but some people aren't comfortable ignoring the possibility - and that's okay. find someone else to play with if you want to smut up that character so badly.

and because it's upthread: nobody's doctoring audio files for their kinky roleplay, so the argument about it being the same for voice actors doesn't quite stand.