there's dicks in every area of every group of every denomination. religious, gender, sexuality, ethnicity. doesn't matter. you're going to find a douche in every group. gays can do wrong. there can be abuse in a gay or lesbian relationship. gays and lesbians and bisexuals can be racist/sexist. and in this instance, they can be the gay version of 'hey dyke, you're just gay because you haven't hopped on the right dick'. it will never cease to piss me off when someone hides behind a label that has nothing to do with their behavior. i didn't punch you because you were gay. i punched you because you put your head up my shirt in a bar and tried to motorboat me, then said it was okay because you were gay. i punched you because you were an asshole. you being gay had zero to do with it.