i dont want to sound picky, prickly or whatever because i know you've all trying to help, but: i have social skills. i'm not a shut in. i didn't used to have this problem in being ignored so blatantly when i was in games years ago, and its sad that its assumed it must be my social problem

yes, i reply to other peoples plurks more than i make my own. i rarely complain, rant or be a debbie downer; i'm adult enough to turn off the computer if i am until its passed. i talk about rp, fandom, memes, CR, and even when i ping people because i'm talking about their characters, my plurks still go ignored. no, i've never been name-dropped either.

i think your comment has given me the answer though. i often look at my plurks from an outside perspective, i've asked trusted close friends if i'm doing something wrong to come off sounding like an ass and the answer is always no. for whatever stupid reason I'm not a fit or a part of these cliques. rather than feeling bad its probably time to ditch it