i'm not saying people should go be best friends with her. i'm sure she has done some weird shit. but, having been friends with some fucked up "victims" in the past, i'm not going to jump on the hate train without more concrete proof of what was supposedly done. not saying that's what happened here, but there's enough doubt in my mind for that to register as an option.

if nobody has that solid proof, that's fine. shit happens. the world continues to turn.