and i never once said it was. you're very quick to jump from someone suggesting and possibly making an argument for something to forcing someone to do something. i've said multiple times in this that if they or anyone wants to do something for whatever reason, just be upfront with the whys. no one expects 'i was molested once so no' as an actual reason. all you need is 'i don't like it.' my overall nitpickiness comes from trying to validate it beyond preference when the attempts to do so don't actually line up. that's it. they even conceded to leaving out the goddess option because in the end, it was preference over validity. just be upfront with it.

outside of that, it was mostly just pointing out that you can do what you want, but there's already a consensual game all about consent that's available. that you can play kinks in. just not dubcon/noncon. which is what this is shaping up to be and that's why i pointed it out.

goddamn, you all are so salty for wank and being righteous over shit. take a breather.