i know you're trolling, but i don't play dubcon/noncon. i wouldn't be against it, but it hasn't come up in any of the games/scenarios i've played beyond the fuck or die scenarios, and that's why i didn't like amat. some chars are good with dubcon/noncon. some aren't. but it's just logic. if you're going to let in a game you can play incest and other kinks in, drawing the line at dubcon/noncon is arbitrary. especially when it's attempted to be validated for no real reason when op could have just said from the start 'i don't like dubcon/noncon and don't want it in my game'. they hemmed and hawed and tried to make it seem like there was logic behind the choice when it was purely preferential before admitting they just didn't like it. start with that. be upfront with your goddamn preferences. don't jump through hoops to make it logical. preferences aren't always logical.