and you're seeing the forest for the trees

i don't know how many more ways i can tell you that it's not about dubcon. it's about making your preferences known, regardless of if your kink is dubcon, the vanillaest of vanilla missionary positions, or crawling up a giantess's tits. it's no different from the people who scream and rage about how they shouldn't have to tell anyone they're not interested in playing with them but piss and moan to wankgate if they get tagged more than once by the same player

i really wish i knew at what point we all started expecting our minds to be read in this hobby and why