i think the reason why so many anons are going nuts over this is because they're not reading the whole thread, they just see "specify your preferences" and they translate that to "must say no to rape or be raped". what's being said here is "say what you want PERIOD" and honestly idk why anyone would find that objectionable (unless they want rape but only from certain players...? idk). again, if the mysterious second party here was actually springing rape on anyone, they'd have a case, but as is, they really don't. even if it turns out the 2nd party anon did want rape, they're guilty only of not asking for what they want, same as op itself. they're not going all selwyn and ~rape me scary sexy black man iyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan~ at op