i did. multiple times. and you're still a shitty asshole. no one should ever have to automatically opt out of something. if discussion is happening and the party interested in dubcon/noncon doesn't say 'i'd like to play dubcon/noncon', then there's no reason why op would have to ask about it or put up a no-ducon/noncon disclaimer. you're talking about communication but you seem to have selective reading skills. go to bed.