TBH I'd rather have the he aces in my space than some of the other lesbians and gays in the LGBT crowd because they're gatekeeping dickwads that actually have made me feel ashamed of being gay. The worst het aces I've met have just been about finding somewhere they belong, while the worst gays and lesbians I've met have been all about gatekeeping from those traitorous icky bi people who're faking for attention.