that's not weird to ask, it's not like you're one of those cis people who asks me a thousand questions about my vagina just because i mentioned being trans. it's amazing how people feel entitled to know everything about your genitals just because you're transgender! jesus. i mean, i don't mind mentioning that i'm pre-op. asking me whether i have a penis or vagina feels like it's toeing the line. asking me if i've ever had sex (or god forbid, suggesting that i'll change my mind once i get a good enough dick in me), if i have a libido, if i masturbate, etc. definitely crosses the line.

i identify as bi/pansexual, although i've only dated men. tbh, part of me is a little afraid of dating a woman because i've dealt with so many batshit women who were into me. one of them even sexually assaulted me and then had the gall to tell everybody that i was sexually harrassing her. people can be fucking nasty.

all of my relationships have been shitty though so now i just feel apathetic about dating unless somebody happens to meet my high standards. (which is mainly "must like my one of my favorite anime series.")

sorry, i vented a little.