people like to ship. people like to crosscanon ship. ships are entirely subjective and tbh, unless they're incredibly gross or problematic (like a minor and someone 2x+ their age) and both parties involved are into the ship, it's not really anyone else's business. it makes the complaining parties look like they're not able to ship with one half or they just like to piss on people's fun. 'but it's not ic' is the fallback excuse and that too is subjective. a lot of stuff about being in a panfandom jamjar aren't ic, but we jut rp and have fun with it.

otherwise, you look like people giving interracial/gay couples the evil eye. "THEY'RE RUINING MARRIAGE." are they? are they really? is someone else's relationship any of your business? kind of applies here (obviously without actual real world comparisons to shit like that because wow, i'm not trying to compare shitty ships in rp to racism or homophobia)

just shrug and do your own thing.