ok and what is your suggestion here? she had a fake id and actively lied about her age (and absolutely did not appear to be a child), so even if he took every step short of calling all of her relatives, he couldn't have know her age. this isn't fucking roman polanski.

is your suggestion here that no man ever have sex with any person ever until you've seen their legally issued birth certificate? you're just being unreasonable to be unreasonable.