breathe for a second and just read the replies here. i don't know if they're from you and your friends, or trolls, or what, but just read

unclench you guys. this isn't someone threatening suicide because they didn't get their way or someone forcing unwanted CR on their not-castmates or someone bullying other players through PMS to get their way. this is such a sad little sin i can't believe wankgate's even allowing it to be discussed

the way you folks talk about this player you'd think he/she ran over someone's dog. there's a thing i like to call perspective, it's awfully helpful in situations like this