hux bores the crap out of me but i could kind of get it as a hateship. they really, genuinely don't like each other, and if people wanted to just right fighting and fucking as some kind of weird power play thing then i can see the appeal

but all these cuddly cute secret married space dads headcanons and whatever? i don't even see the appeal, much less the basis.

the dark side of the force kind of precludes all that anyway...