I have to admit, I laughed, I'm sorry anon. I just imagined a character staring at their journal and just...slooooooowly closing it.

But seriously, it is really frustrating. I'll be the first to say that, even in a game, no one is obligated to play with any other particular person, but at the same time I don't think one should tag someone if they're not actually interested in playing with them.