meh, most of my icky friend experiences have been at least partially my fault.

although one of them was partially because my friend had some awful, cliquey bitches of friends that convinced her i was a horrible person. and ironically the falling out i had with them started when i admitted i didn't feel comfortable in the cast and felt they were cliquey. (boy, they sure showed me by ganging up on me in a private plurk to rant at me for an hour about how i was a horrible friend when i mentioned i might like to try apping back into the cast again! and mocking me when i was legit triggered by a rape joke one of them made on plurk was pretty special, too.)